Archive: Jay Mariotti Decrying Domestic Violence

Early Saturday morning in Los Angeles, Jay Mariotti was arrested for felony domestic assault after police found his girlfriend with “cuts and bruises following an alleged altercation between the two. After spending the night in jail, Mariotti was released on $50,000 bail and ordered to appear in court on Sept. 17.

Jay Mariotti

The arrest follows a period of 15 years in which Mariotti, in his formerly regular CHICAGO SUN-TIMES column, harshly criticized athletes for their involvement in domestic violence against their girlfriends and wives.

In a Sun-Times piece dated January 3, 1996, and titled, “Nebraska’s Title Tainted by Phillips’ Participation,” Mariotti wrote that Nebraska’s ‘96 NCAA college football championship was “tainted” because of a misdemeanor domestic assault charge against then-Cornhuskers star Lawrence Phillips. Excerpt:

Dr. Tom would like his program stamped as a dynasty today, the first team to repeat as unanimous national champions in 40 years, the team that dented history and deflated Steve Spurrier’s little-boy ego on the same night.

Sorry.

The 62-24 thrashing of Florida was only a footnote to a deplorable sight in the (Ad Space Here) Fiesta Bowl. That vision would be Lawrence Phillips, running free in the desert, galloping for 165 yards and three scores and playing the hero’s role. Assuredly, this fellow is no hero. At a time when domestic violence never has been a more pressing issue - and largely involves the sporting genre - Phillips begins the new year as a horrid symbol of why the problem still isn’t taken seriously enough.

Pummel the girl, play in the big game, do your touchdown moonwalk, revive your pro career. Afterward, say, “I knew we would wear them down. It feels good to be with my team and win another national championship.” What a fine statement for young America.

Of Phillips Mariotti wrote:

If we can give Phillips some credit for facing the national media and our questions, we give him little credit for his answers. Osborne’s few backers in this case will say he is trying to save a kid’s life. But why, when other societal offenders must pay penance, should Phillips get such a huge break?

On July 21, 1998, Mariotti assailed the Chicago White Sox for signing Albert Belle in part because of a pending domestic violence charge against Belle. Excerpt:

Fifty-five million dollars. How many hungry children could be fed for $55 million? How many lousy roads could be fixed for $55 million? How many air conditioners could be installed in sweltering city apartments for $55 million? How many schools could be renovated for $55 million?

The White Sox spent $55 million on Albert Belle. Never has it seemed a more tragic waste of money than today. Where has this grand investment taken them? How has it benefited the team’s sagging relationship with the community? They’ve been a lame club since he arrived. Only recently has he begun to produce like a big-time power hitter. He has been a colossal jerk in the clubhouse, anathema to Sox fans who tried to like him but gave up.

And now, we have the first Chicago-related allegation that he has become what his surly reputation suggested.

A menace to society.

With a convicted wife-beater playing first base and enough public-relations problems to threaten their extinction, the last thing the Sox needed was an off-the-field incident involving Belle. Now they have that albatross, too, after the temperamental, ever-troubled slugger allegedly punched a 25-year-old woman in the back, twisted her arm, knocked her to the floor and ripped a telephone cord out of the wall as she attempted to call 911 for help. When she tried to rise, assistant state’s attorney David Coleman said, Belle pushed her back down.

Sends shivers up your spine, doesn’t it?

The Belle signing followed the White Sox’s decision to sign Wilfredo Cordero, who was also cited in the past for domestic violence against his partner, which Mariotti noted:

He and Reinsdorf better be careful. It is one thing to give Wil Cordero a final chance after his history of domestic abuse. But to have two players with the same problem, if the Belle allegations prove true, would be devastating to a franchise that has hit rock bottom in credibility. The nerve of Reinsdorf to keep using two gimmicks to bring in fans.

Earlier, on April 9, 1998, Mariotti had written of Cordero in the Sun-Times:

The public has it all wrong, Wil Cordero said. He is not the man we think he is. “They make it seem like I’m the kind of guy who will go home after the game and beat my wife,” he said. “But that’s not who I am. That’s not the kind of person I am.”

No? Then who was the person who admitted to beating his wife last June in Boston? The person who, police say, left dried blood on his wife’s nose and red marks on her throat and arms? The person who allegedly threatened to kill her as the authorities hauled him away? The person who pleaded guilty to four charges, including felony assault and battery with a dangerous weapon?

It was you, Wilfredo Cordero. In a matter of days, he will be heading to Chicago, eager to deliver timely hits and play first base for the White Sox. And accompanying Cordero will be the woman he hit, Ana Echevarria, who is trying to rebuild their marriage after the frightening episode of domestic abuse and allegations of other incidents.

Suddenly, a baseball franchise already battling apathy and disarray now has saddled its community with a serious social issue: whether an admitted wife beater, who has been accused by two other women of abusing them, can avoid problems this year in a local residence that also will include the couple’s newborn son.

He will arrive before month’s end. A bad idea is about to happen.

Still earlier, on March 24, 1998, Mariotti wrote of Cordero:

Welcome to Chicago, city of no conscience. Welcome to Chicago, where an admitted wife-beater can become an instant hero by wrapping those same fists around a fastball. Once upon a time, we were best known for pizza, architecture, Michael Jordan, nightlife, neighborhoods, TV skits, a big lake.

Not anymore. Today, we are known as the halfway house for wayward, troubled athletes with horrible tempers and wicked manners. Give us your domestic abusers, your trick-or-treat attackers, your head-butters, your drug-users, your ref-terrorists, your bat- corkers, your groin-kickers, your spectator-punchers, your .44 Magnum-carriers.

The civic track record is why Jerry Reinsdorf can pursue a proven menace like Wil Cordero, regretfully signed Monday by the White Sox, when owners in other towns are too dignified and respectful of the citizenry to try. You might think it’s a coy sort of forgiveness, taking problematic athletes into your bosom and dealing with Dennis Rodman and Albert Belle, Tony Phillips and Bryan Cox, Pippen and Bob Probert and, in a sadder sense, Alonzo Spellman.

I call it crude ignorance, frightening shallow-mindedness, a peculiar permissiveness that has been allowed to hit rock-bottom.

A trend is now a full-blown epidemic with fangs. The aforementioned problem children are mostly saints compared to Cordero, who pleaded guilty in November to charges of assaulting and threatening his wife, Ana, in a June disturbance that left her nose a bloody mess.

Two days later, March 26, 1998, Mariotti wrote of the Bears contemplating the drafting of Randy Moss:

The timing of Wil Cordero couldn’t be worse. Randy Moss knows. He has been trying, with a precise public-relations plan, to convince Chicago he won’t be a menace to society if the Bears draft him. You know, that he has matured since allegedly striking the mother of his daughter, stomping a student in a race-related brawl, smoking pot and serving 93 days in jail.

But now comes the outrageously irresponsible signing of Cordero, an admitted wife-beater who joins the White Sox today. And with it comes the reality that the Bears, already riding the morality fence on Moss, cannot choose him with the fifth selection of the first round without a horrific outcry.

Then there’s what Mariotti wrote of Moss and the fans of Chicago on Dec. 23, 1997:

Or a wickedly talented gamebreaker (Moss), possibly of Jerry Rice’s caliber, who served jail time for kicking a kid to smithereens, got bounced out of Notre Dame, violated his probation by smoking pot, did the near-impossible and got bounced out of Florida State, claims to truly hate people, assures “the hate’s always going to be there,” was charged with domestic battery against the mother of his baby daughter and donned wraparound shades for a stately Heisman Trophy ceremony watched by millions?

We know what the fans want. Evil. Always willing to compromise ethics for the thrill of victory, always ready to grant clemency to anyone who can help Chicago win a game, the people want the problem child. 

On Dec. 6, 2005, Mariotti noted of Milton Bradley and the Cubs:

A destination? Truth be told, the North Side has become a place of desperation. Why else would an embarrassed Hendry and a dazed Dusty Baker shift their anxious sights to the troubled Milton Bradley, not exactly Tribune Co.’s next Employee of the Month?

(Bradley) reportedly had his home visited three times last summer by police investigating domestic-violence claims, one in which Bradley allegedly choked his pregnant wife, bloodied her lip and threw a cell phone against a wall, though no charges were filed against him or his wife. 

Of Corey Dillon, Mariotti wrote on Sept. 7, 2000:

The best college back is Deuce McAllister of Mississippi, a two-way performer who would be a sweet fit, but he’ll be long gone before the Bears’ usual middle-of-the-road pick. Dillon could be the prize of free agency, but not if he is reprimanded by the commissioner’s office in an ongoing domestic-violence case.

 On June 19, 1994, Mariotti wrote of O.J. Simpson:

What about his no-contest plea to a wife-beating charge a few years ago? Alas, answers won’t be known until the trial, if then. O.J. Simpson should not be convicted or acquitted before then, no matter what is reported or said. Remember, this is America.

What made it crazier yet was Simpson’s reputation as a well-adjusted, down-to-earth celebrity. Other than the wife-beating charges, which may have been absurdly downplayed in the media because of his popularity, you rarely heard bad stuff about Simpson. 

On the occasion of Scottie Pippen being selected to the U.S. Olympic Team, Mariotti wrote on July 31, 1995:

Never mind the message his selection sends to young hoop players: Toss a chair, quit with 1.8 seconds left, still make the Dream Team. Never mind what it says to society: Keep a loaded gun in your Range Rover, pile up police reports involving domestic abuse, call Chicago fans racists, still make the Dream Team. All the corporate suits know is, he can go coast-to-coast and jam better than anyone else out there. Make sure he’s in Atlanta, they demand.

Pippen is on the edge of 30. One of these years, you hope he grows up. Yet the last we saw him, not long before an assault charge was dropped by his now-former fiancee, he was speeding far above the limit on Lake Shore Drive, top down, shirt off. Hopefully, one of his current representatives will have a heart-to-heart with him before Atlanta. You know, don’t shame the country.

On May 9, 2003, Mariotti passionately defended Bob Ryan after the Boston sportswriter said he’d like to “smack” the wife of Jason Kidd - and then refused to immediately apologize. Excerpt:

Breaking one of my cardinal rules, I’ve been reading the Internet the last few days and have been astonished at some of the opinions.

But of Kidd, Mariotti wrote on June 5, 2002:

A domestic abuser is not a hero in any arena. When a group of crude, drunken fans in Boston taunted him with chants of “Wife Beater! Wife Beater!” last week, I felt bad that Kidd’s wife, Joumana, and the couple’s 3-year-old son, T.J., had to endure such courtside harassment. Victims of violence shouldn’t be subjected to cruel reminders.

That said, did I feel bad for Kidd?

Not really.

This is the baggage he inherited, the scrutiny that never will fade.

Finally, just a week before he was arrested for felony domestic assault, Mariotti wrote - in a column for AOL Fanhouse - of recent punishment meted out by MLB in response to violent conduct by league players.

Jay Mariotti

The piece was headlined: “For Acts of Violence, MLB Much Too Soft.”

Would it be unreasonable to suggest that with the aforementioned body of work, Mariotti’s credibility in criticizing athletes for violent conduct of any sort has been permanently impugned?

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45 comments

  1. GravatarMichael Hunt
    1:16 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Great post!

  2. Gravatar808
    1:44 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    wow….those are all rants against colored people….

  3. Gravatar859
    2:07 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Lol good call on not drafting Randy Moss as well.

  4. GravatarBarksdale Stackhouse
    2:49 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    “wow….those are all rants against colored people….”

    good point.

  5. GravatarEric Walker
    3:21 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    I noticed that also, but trust me as a white man I fully know that white men are just as capable of being lowlife woman beaters as an African American man, a Hispanic man or any other non Caucassian race.

    Who was that pitcher for Philadelphia who was white that was charged with domestic violence in Boston on his wife in public no less? Did Mariotti rail against him? If he didn’t, then the racial overtones have 100% credibility.

  6. GravatarEric Walker
    3:23 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    For the record, I am proud to say I have never struck a woman or put my hands on a woman in anger my entire life, and all other men should be able to say that with pride as well.

  7. GravatarEric Walker
    3:27 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    It was Brett Myers, who’s wife chose not to press charges and the case was dismissed. Mind you, he did this in public and witnesses saw him punching his wife. Now, did Jay Marotti leap on him? If not, then yes, there are racial biases in what he said completely.

  8. Gravatarwaveaussie
    5:34 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Mariotti is a bad guy. Always has been.

  9. GravatarUnity Now
    6:17 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Of course he didn’t write about white guys and domestic violence, he wants to make sure white men get a categorical exclusion.

    When white guys do things, its usually minimized in the press. Chmura hot tubbing with teenage girls, Pitino’s 15 second sexual affair. If Pitino was a black coach of the same stature, it would be the lead story on network and local news every night and would burn up the internets.

  10. Gravatarbob cousy
    6:49 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    thats bc blacks hit wives whites do not

  11. GravatarTony Reali
    7:14 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Marrioti beats his girl and gets arrested, does he have a chance of getting his job back? Blackistone…….

    Oh the segment that will never air. Have been checkin the 4 letter crawl all day and 4 Letter news but haven’t seen word one. But if it was Player A they would be having a running crawl and roundtable of talking heads…

  12. Gravatarsnakeplisken
    8:32 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Well all of those are accusations. Those familiar with the lower court system could tell you that more often than not, there are some bizarre facts and about half the time, the alleged perpetrator is innocent. Our country became obsessed with protecting domestic violence and it has turned the tables on men. In my area, a woman can threaten you, hit you, spit on you, break things but if you a lay a hand on her, you go to jail. Not only that you spend 12 hours before you can bond out, you surrender your hand gun permit, and forced to defend yourself. I dont know if Mariotti is guilty or not, but guys have to stay cool or they get hooked up.

  13. GravatarRFS
    8:50 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Mariotti is a tool.

  14. Gravatarsam hell
    10:12 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Whether they are black, white asian, have green hands, Maripunchy is an not-know-it-all asshole, the chickens are roosting!! I can watch around the horn again!!

  15. GravatarDMQ
    10:55 pm on August 22nd, 2010

    Hey Jay!

    Luke 6:41 “Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?”

  16. GravatarJim Lampley
    5:00 am on August 23rd, 2010

    This domestic violence expert is still working. Lectured the country about not overreacting to 9/11 Attacks. How about not hitting wives. Keep in mind especially wives who don’t have full hands! That takes a special kind of asshat abuser.

  17. GravatarJim Lampley 2
    5:15 am on August 23rd, 2010

    Correction it was the fiancé twice slapped around. My ex wife / biz partner assures everyone she never had to swing her Chinese fingertraps in self defense.

  18. GravatarPiledriver
    5:28 am on August 23rd, 2010

    Eurgh, all these comments about “never hitting a woman” are so painful to read. It’s exactly this kind of bullshit that makes woman so entitled nowadays. If a woman has the balls to hit me, she has the balls to get smacked back. Straight up. No ifs ands or buts. Now I don’t like Mariotti, but how do we know she didn’t start hitting Mariotti first? If he got bruised as well, then I’m not that shocked he hit her back.

    The blind-rage that society throws at people who dare lay a hand on a violent woman is sickening. Maybe Marrioti now realizes the stupidity he showed when he would just reflexively crucify people who did the same.

  19. GravatarUno
    5:49 am on August 23rd, 2010

    Eric Walker…so, us men should be proud that we don’t hit women? I’ve never struck a woman in my life either, but that doesn’t mean that I feel “proud” about that. It shouldn’t be some badge of honor or something to be commended for…it is something so basic of a principle that it shouldn’t even be given a second thought.

    I get the fact that many men don’t “get” this - thus, the reason why there is so much domestic abuse around the entire world…but I just don’t agree that men should pat themselves on the back for “never putting their hands on a woman in anger.” It shouldn’t be some sort of point of recognition…it should just be a given.

  20. GravatarUno
    6:25 am on August 23rd, 2010

    Mariotti’s wife probably just likes it rough, thus explaining the cuts and bruises. The two get into a spat, someone overhears the two, the police come and investigate and what are they going to believe? Mariotti’s wife’s word or the physical “evidence” of bruises and cuts?

  21. GravatarChicagojeff
    7:44 am on August 23rd, 2010

    If you are going to sit here and believe that this is this 50yr old man’s first time striking a woman.. then I have a bridge to sell you in a certain borough. That’s what ironic about all of the crap i read from him back in the day in the Sun TImes. There’s absolutely no way that Jay just “snapped” one evening because of the pressure. Fifty year old man mean that we are talking about a lifetime of previous abuse.

  22. GravatarNC
    9:01 am on August 23rd, 2010

    It’s amazing how hypocritical people are….

    He has been doing this for year - guarantee it. Yet, he can talk about people such as Lawrence Phillips in such a crappy way.

    Kind of like Rush Limbaugh - stoned out of his mind yet pointing his finger at other people

  23. Gravatarw
    9:52 am on August 23rd, 2010

    Come on, give the guy a break he was drinking. It’s not his fault.

  24. Gravatarkawkajun
    10:25 am on August 23rd, 2010

    ESPN sure has had a lot of douchbags on their payroll….Fine family values from the folks at Disney/ABC…..

    KK

  25. Gravatarreal
    12:08 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    ,, “piledriver” needs to check himself. Do you feel good after beating a woman? Fortunately the only people who agree with you are doing time. No-way ever is it OK to beat a woman. Volatile relationships don’t just appear out of thin air. There are always signs in the beginning,,, She’s an idiot for not bailing on him at first sign. And,, babes are NEVER worth the trouble if you end up having “throttling” them. Real men walk away with dignity, instead of showing what kind of p*ssys they are by beating up a trouble-making pig even if it is to hit back.. What an inexcusable loser !!!! This is what separates the classes,, not color, or education level.

  26. Gravatarjflo
    12:46 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    i thought jay marrioti was gay???????

  27. GravatarNC is a moron
    1:13 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    Hey stupid, limbaugh didn’t even make fun of cocaine abuser crybaby Patrick Kennedy son of woman drowned Ted Kennedy. Hecgies after their political views idiot. He goes after hypocrites like al gore and his private planes and multiple homes with huge energy needs. He never wasted time with other stuff but you do.

  28. GravatarWhiteMan
    6:50 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    Maybe she deserved it?

  29. GravatarTy
    6:55 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    hahahahahahahahahaha

  30. GravatarMick J
    7:00 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    Game, set and match. That was awesome.

  31. Gravatarcj
    10:06 pm on August 23rd, 2010

    Much of what he wrote was aimed at Jerry Reinsdorf. Mariotti is now, has been, and will forever be…a duchebag

  32. GravatarOG914
    6:42 pm on August 24th, 2010

    Now he cant goody 2 shoes about black pros arrest. What was he doing out at that time thats what he would have said. One word dont drop the soap

  33. GravatarJonathan
    7:07 am on August 25th, 2010

    You know, all of those rants are probably against African-Americans because…surprise…most pro athletes are African-American.

    It’d be like saying “wow notice how those rants are against white guys” about a guy who writes about golf and NASCAR.

  34. GravatarJohn Melrose in LA
    10:08 am on August 26th, 2010

    Amazing post. Also, nice to see Jay making it on to TMZ just two months after arriving in LA. Mariotti is so-o-o Hollywood now.

  35. GravatarTom
    10:16 am on August 26th, 2010

    We don’t know that Mariotti is racist and we don’t know what happened Sat. morning, so normally we shouldn’t speculate. But details and facts never get in the way of they typical Mariotti story with an agenda. He is a shock-writer that always inserts himself into the story because he is a pathetic self-doubting POS who derives his self-esteem by associating himself with the very athletes he rips. And do I read him? yes. What’s that say about me? probably nothing positive.

  36. GravatarSuperTech
    11:14 am on August 26th, 2010

    We get it now Jay. Do as you say, not as you do.

  37. GravatarIrishman
    11:56 am on August 26th, 2010

    No more Jay & Woody finals? Early Christmas present. Jay was, is, and always will be a giant tool. He’s the kid that had no talent, always got picked last, and now thinks he can is better than all those other 6th graders that used to kick his ass every day. Have fun in the pokey Jay, no pun intended.

  38. GravatarGringo
    9:50 am on August 29th, 2010

    Jason Kidd’s as black as Mozzarrella cheese.

  39. GravatarCozzie
    4:50 pm on August 30th, 2010

    Yo Eric Walker: you’re proud of doing something you’re supposed to do? What you said is equal to saying, I feel good about not smoking crack, stealing from churches, and starving my children. Congrats on that, I for one think you deserve a medal.

  40. GravatarInnocent
    6:20 pm on August 30th, 2010

    I was falsely accused of domestic violence in January. My case was dismissed, but there was a lot of damage done. If he’s guilty, I hope he gets what he deserves, but since my wife self-injured herself and then called 911, I’ll wait for the trial to pass judgement.

  41. GravatarSteve Amaya
    5:43 am on August 31st, 2010

    White men are the worst wife beaters, and well the scum of the earth…actually not all white men but most…

  42. GravatarRev Dr E Buzz
    1:28 pm on August 31st, 2010

    It’s not like sports are, you know, entirely composed of black guys or anything.

  43. GravatarJame Eriksen
    8:04 am on September 14th, 2010

    Domestic violence is an equal oppurtunity employer. It does not discriminate against Race, Sex or Age.

  44. GravatarEddie
    6:00 am on October 1st, 2010

    HA! HA! HA!

    Mariotti should live in a cave. That fits his personality the best. Hope he never show’s his face on tv again unless he’s being slammed. Mariotti sucked and was a very bitter sports writer. Mariotti’s wrote with anger as if he hated almost every person that put on a uniform. I look forward to watching ESPN again. I would’nt even watch (Around The Horn) when I saw him on the panel. ESPN is better off. Hip Hip Hurray!!!!

  45. GravatarSteve
    7:27 am on May 12th, 2011

    I think Jay M. needs to look up the word: Hypocrite